Where are the Men?

Women and young girls arepainfully conscious during socials when they are not asked to dance. Way back, they would have been called wallflowers but with a different implication. Wallflowers alluded to girls or women too shy to dance. It was unthinkable then to dance with another girl so there was no option but to sit there like a decorative wall clock pretending to be delighted at the dance floor scene when actually she was dying with shame.

Although girl-to-girl dancing in parties and clubs is no longer a social faux pas, it is still petrifying for girls to be left at the table while everyone else is rocking or fox-trotting on the dance floor. They will not admit that they have prayed to all imaginable deities begging for someone to hustle them to a rhumba. Nine out of 10, they will try to lookbored stiff, which will drive the men farther away.

It is always a matter of feminine satisfaction to be chosen from a bevy of beauties and asked for a dance. If you are puzzled why men bypass you for the girl behind you when you’re equally sexy or attractive, check this list out. You might get a clue to the missing link.

* You look like a sourpuss.
* You are with a group of women.
* If you are with a friend, men will dither to ask one of you to dance.
* You are not wearing something soft to the touch, men like something silky.
* You look too eager.
* You are wearing too much accessories.
* You are wearing double tops, men find it difficult to lead woman wearing double tops because their hands slip or slide thus hampering intricate moves.
* You are wobbling on 4-inch heels shoes.

Techniques to Get Men to Dance with You

In this modern times, women can invite men to dance with them. But there is a manner to bag a dancing partner. Of course, you don’t ask the traditional “May I have this dance?” and you do not bulldozer him with a “dance with me.”

It would be effective if you look him in the eye and nicely tell him you would like to dance with him. Chances are he will be pleased and acquiesce or assure you’ll he will seek you out later. The question does not force a man to say yes or no directly, saving you mortification.

A woman who got the most dances would always say hi to the men when arrives at the party. His was a subtle but effective strategy to let men know she was approachable. She also does not checks the men standing near the dance floor like a platoon of handsome Howard Miller clocks or mantel clocks.

If you want more men to dance with you, follow those tips. You’ll be the envy of all women at the bash.