It is a fact that almost 70% of people will cheat on their partner at some point during the realtionship. They are not always caught and often the injured party is none the wiser and continues with the relationship blissfully unaware. However, there are several signs that you should watch out for that may point to your partners infidelity.

The four points below are just a small number of the many signs that you need to be aware of. You need to keep your eyes open and look out for any changes in your partner’s behaviour. There are many more signs that you should look out for and I’ll be writing about these in later articles.

1) Improving Fitness. You and your partner both become comfortable in their bodies after a relatively lengthy relationship. Be wary if your partner for no specific reason suddenly decides to get into shape, to start running at nights or join a gym, and you are not invited.

2) New Sexual Activity. Have you noticed a change in your partner’s sexual preferences, do you make love more or less regularly? Have they asked you to try positions that you’d never done before. Any of the above behaviours may indicate your partner is cheating.

3) Keeping Secrets. Everyone in a relationship has secrets, some small some not so small. However there is a limit to what type of secrets people should keep from their partners. You should pay attention to your partner’s use of their mobile phone, keep an eye on when they receive calls – are they at strange hours of the day. Does your partner answer the phone and then move out of your earshot? If you are suspicious of your partner you should check their mobile phone records, if there is a number on their record that you do not know you can use an online service to track it.

4) Little Details. It is quite normal when telling a story to a group of friends to leave a small details that are unimportant to the overall theme. However, when people are lying about something keeping something hidden they often feel the need to over exaggerate the small details. If your partner gives you in depth information about inane subjects such as what they had for lunch or what so and so did on their holiday, this could be an indication that they are cheating.

Whether your partner is cheating on you are not, you need to find out for sure. If you do not find out your suspicions will eat you up and ultimately destroy the relationship. For a relationship to be strong you need to trust your partner.

I would like to end this article on a good note, there is always a chance that your partner is not cheating on you, and that you are getting yourself worked up and stressed over nothing. If you truly love your partner it is always nice to assume that your partner loves you.