Here are the 3 reasons for this.

The first reason is may be new to you – being socially proactive.

I remember the first time I started weight lifting, I don’t have an upper pectoral muscles – the muscle right at the top of your chest just under your clavicle that make your chest look big.

Actually I did, but they were so small and weak, it took a good three weeks to even begin to feel them. Every time I worked them out I was incredibly sore and could barely move my arms.

Then I can now handle the big amounts of weight right after I have reached the tripping point in the development of my muscle. The mind is in that way too.

It takes time to develop these new neuro-pathways on your own. If you’re not pushing yourself HARD day in-day out, it can take awhile, depending on your skill level.

Thinking that meeting women requires a lot of hard work can cause a social fatigue. And that is the second reason.

It’s not really so much about “fatigue” but it’s more on having an overwhelmed feeling.

One way that can frazzle your mind is when you are overwhelmed by something. And this can lead to some sort of discouragement, exhaustion and depression. It’s like your body saying “Whew, enough for this much work, I’m quitting before I can even begin”

This will hinder you from doing any progress. I was in this situation when I was putting a lot of theories on my notes. And as I looked at them I’ve seen that I am just like looking for a huge and complex physics equation.

It was discouraging to think that I had to do almost all the needed things just to get a good quality of women.

Lastly, you will feel socially exhausted for your dating and mating game, when you spend a lot of effort and focus on stuff in wrong situation and find out it was not helpful to your pick-up.

I’d say 99 percent of guys get it wrong when it comes to attracting women. The thing is, the woman usually can’t tell, because most guys learn to hide their inner “stuff” after a few harsh rejections.

But this doesn’t deny the truth that when the average guy is attracted to a woman, he exerts his effort and mental energy on trying to impress the woman, or figure out if she likes him.

As what we have seen and heard in the media, from our parents and friends – generally it lets us know that man’s role is to IMPRESS the woman and in return a woman will sleep with you.

So Pathetic!

I hate seeing an advertisement of a guy that bumbling around a cute girl trying to impress her, even though he looks like a fool while the girl giggles like she’s better than him because she’s a girl.

Ok, enough for that protest… my point here is that so many guys are being screwed when it comes to the control of their dating game.

But if a guy takes the time to adjust the way his MIND works when it comes to attraction, it changes everything.

You need to OPTIMIZE YOUR MIND and body to function at the highest level when interacting with women, because that’s what’s truly attractive…

A GUY AT HIS BEST.