The Game: “Picking up a “10
If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a 10, then I think you’ll find this letter very interesting.
But first, let’s go waaay back…
It was in my high school, that there was a girl in my class who was seems so perfect.
She was smart, cool, and so beautiful it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn’t look away)…
She was one of the popular kids, but was friendly to everyone.
We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).
I badly wanted to ask her to a senior prom but I chickened out at the last minute.
It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.
I’ve talked to a lot of guys and this seems a pretty common experience among them there was this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, and they missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart…
Ah, the hard to tame “10,” a perfect girl that every guy dream of but never seems to have it.
I have so many things to say about this so-called “10′s.” In one word they are women of another “breed,” but at the same time, what makes them so is in the way they think.
Understanding your own fascination with female perfection, and understanding the reality of extremely beautiful women will help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that “perfect girl” for yourself.
First of all, “10″ is just a myth. No human being can be considered as perfect. You CANNOT say that a woman who looks prettier than the women is more “valuable”.
The only true “10″ is the one that’s perfect for you, a woman that turns you on, whom you have great chemistry with.
Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10′s, given you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create options for yourself.
One recipe for your failure is if you treat a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier than the others.
Why?
Because a lot of guys do that.
The girl knows what you are about and she sees you as a shallow guy.
But there definitely are certain women that seem on another “level” of beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.
You need to understand on how you will deal with these kinds of women.
As what I’ve said, you shouldn’t treat women “differently.”
Let me clear this up.
You shouldn’t treat them BETTER than other women. But there are a couple things you need to know.
First, she don’t like a guy that chases her for her looks alone.
More than anything else, a woman values a guy that appreciates her personality.
Now for the sake of yours, I”ll be giving you a heads up.
The so-called “10′s” has two different types.
High self esteem, and low self-esteem.
Low self esteem 10′s are pretty common. They are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn’t EARN that attention, so they have a guilt complex.
In fact, most of their lives are probably coasted, and are in complete dumbasses.
It may sound harsh but I call it like that.
These women will respond to jerk behavior. They take away and flip out their validation will and do anything to get it back.
Anything.
(Aside from that, these women usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)
Meanwhile, the high self-esteem 10′s are women that have had a taste of the elite – early from the start they realized that high levels of society were attainable to them, they exert an effort be intelligent, successful and make the most of their lives.
They know that they can get closer to a great life than everyone else, and they are motivated to put a lot of hard work to attain that.
Usually these women have good attitudes, are intelligent, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
In fact, the most beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings reading, being with their families, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
And here’s another interesting thing. These women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
Because they have high standards for themselves, and since most guys are either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s rare that they meet another man who is on their level.
But here’s the good news. You will find these women the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.
Being the best man you can be and being a “male 10″ is what you will get from these Attraction Code.
You’ll notice an interesting thing when you start to embody the Attraction Code.
There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you’ll get odd responses from less attractive women – they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they’re not on your level.
But you’ll be amazed to see the responds of the most beautiful and attractive women that warm right up to you as soon as you approach them – whether on the street or in the bar – because they can see that you are on their “level.”
The woman will thinks “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”
The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. And of course you’ll have plenty of “adventures” to enjoy with all kinds of women, but this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are lot of 10′s out there waiting for you.
Don’t spend another year missing something that you could’ve been enjoying right now.
Vin