Don’t you just hate that connotation that a shy girls comes across as being a wallflower. There are some very attractive wallflowers, jasmine for instance, and jasmine attracts attention, just from its beautiful smell. However this has been a longstanding euphemism for shy girls, as they do tend to stand at the back of the room, propping up the wall. Flirting tips for shy girls can help to overcome this stereotyping.

For some bashful girls, the idea of talking to a man who appears interested in her, or who she is interested in, can cause panic. Confidence is key to overcoming this panic! You can still keep your shy persona, after all this is in your personality and will always be part of who you are. The trick is to learning how to be more confident about yourself so you don’t panic when a man talks to you or you want to talk to a man.

Big tip number one: S-M-I-L-E, this is vital, a welcoming and friendly smile shows a new friend that you are approachable. Smiling will never make you appear to be desperate or phony, and smiling is also good exercise for your facial muscles. The trick is to smile naturally, so just think of something special when you smile, perhaps the smell of jasmine? Work with your shyness, that enigmatic Mona Lisa smile has had more attention from men than any outgoing extrovert.

Flirting is simple, it is all about body language, eye contact and mystery. Mystery is where the shy girl has an advantage over extrovert women. They bare it all out there in the open, why your demure smile and timidity make you appear to be the most mysterious woman in the room.

Flirting can be incredibly subtle; it does not have to be all out there and extravagantly extrovert. Flirting is an art form with no written laws defining it. Of course being confident helps, but you are still able to retain your aura of shyness while being confident. For instance being confident in what you are wearing, and being confident enough to believe that flirting comes as a natural response when you like a man.